Everything is Superficial

 Everything is superficial. Nothing is above or below the fact that I want something in every moment because it feels good or because it benefits me in some way. If something is above or below my eyesight or my willingness to be responsible for my own well being then that would be a personal failure. 

Poetry is my willingness to be able to see and describe what is right in front of me, knowing often in my experience that the same data will likely reappear in a positive way in the future as long as I keep my eyes on healthy data. Some neighborhoods have had a degree of lack of health just by virtue of the lack of health of the world. But even in the darkest of places a whispered wisdom is always there. Even when my ethical godly time in the dark had timed out, the dark was compassionate in telling me so with clarity so as to focus on the light that I needed. 

The only unhealthy fixation is the desire to fix things without listening or with a tinge of self-righteous superiority to others. That tends to lead to unhealthy sexual fixations as that tends to manifest as a lust for justice. I wrote something about that elsewhere. 

Poetry is the cure for unhealthy lust. Lust is best left to ambition for one's career or new talents or lust for a willing partner or the non imposing lust for a sexy woman or man that doesn't demand anything of that form but just acknowledges one's true nature. If I see a woman in a jogging suit that accentuates her breasts legs or thighs, I'll look and feel the pleasure of lust. 

What I'll also do is not stare. Shaming one's self for one's sexuality tends to fixate on one's self instead of respecting the other person. Not respecting one's true nature as a human being by not looking at a full grown woman as a man would be me not respecting my own right to exist, and that would cause me to not respect the sexuality of the other woman, no matter how good my intentions are. 

Social intuition has nothing to do with psychology. It's the superficial knowledge of what's appropriate and what's not appropriate. 

(One interesting theory is that people have tended to transform themselves into pedophiles by being angry at pedophilia and trying to rescue children that created an unresolvable sexual fixation on children. Suggesting that empathic desire to support a class of people tends to lead to lust and sexual desire. That's not a natural predicament, that's a superficial socially created phenomenon. Recognizing superficiality is key to avoiding unnatural social fixations. My lust for this subject had been due to have been confronted by defensive people who had become pedophiles and I refused to be one. Some have seemed to try to justify their fixations by trying to drag others down. I transformed that lust into a lust for independence and freedom and as a permanent means to deflect the unhealthy fixations of others. There's a karmic value here too, but karma has nothing to do with what anyone did or didn't do. Karma is something that people are unfairly born with and have to clean just to defend their right to exist. I was born around a lot of people with these problems growing up who knew that what they did to children was wrong, which is why they kept their past from me so as to not corrupt me with their baggage. They used their insights to smuggle me insights without direct contact so as to prevent me from making their mistakes.)