Common decency

Topics that used to be forbidden just aren't anymore. There's no way to unring that bell.

But the point of forbidding topics was so that people wouldnt have their achilles heel activated all the time and so that people could meet new people and have new experiences. 

Professionalism and common decency.

People have to handle their own achilles heel. Thats true. Personal responsibility is more important. Common ethics is the best solution. 

If your at a job its more ethical to let someone be at peace in their job to make a living. So let others have their own life.

No one actually governs this. But if enough people agree to have the social skills to recognize approptiate times and places for these types of discussions everyone would be better off. 

Nature has grace so that's not a hard and fast rule. But it's a natural respect thing and would be greatly appreciated if i could work without a wisdom train around me all the time.