Self acceptance

 I sense the stupidity that ive confronted with women is years of bad habits where that was the smartest stupid option women had available to them. 

But if a woman wants to know how a man can experience sexual pleasure with a woman and not give himself away its simple. 

My mantra is that I accept sexual attraction with another adult woman and dont expect anything from that sexual attraction except the pleasure of sexual attraction. That puts the pleasure and satisfaction in my control and gives no power to the other person. 

Power isnt magic. Its leverage. If you think that what you want is something only i can give you then sex or not youd already given your power away. 

Because i accept that no one has to help me or give me anything I've built an honest and sincere world of non expectant friends. 

But that comes with work. 

Women imprisoned themselves and blamed men. Thats the stupidity of it.