Sociopathic wisdom isn't necessarily evil. It's just the biological tendency to put your own animal needs before anything or anyone else. The only thing that would actually make that toxic is if a person with sociopathic tendencies refused to layer that. A narcissist would have the same problem but the opposite. A narcissist is just a person with all the spiritual wisdom on top with no understanding of their animal drives underneath.
I identify as Machavelian. I'm the center between narcissism and sociopathy. If I got addicted to that middle ground without layering both my top and bottom tendencies I would be just as guilty.
The addiction for all three in that dark triad is the independence and solitude that those cornerstones provide. The tendency to see the completeness in one's self can sometimes create the illusion that a person doesn't need to learn from anyone else. The fact that my natural birthright made my wisdom perfectly reliable up until 2017 gave me the illusion that people could just mine my wisdom and not bother me forever.
All three in the triad have that issue. The narcissist could believe that all the had to do would be to ride on God's grace forever. A sociopath could believe that all he or she would have to do would be to live on sensuality forever.
That's the triad of incomplete wisdom centers that appear complete in each and of themselves but actually need each other.
The narcissist would have an edge in grace with God. That's checked and balanced if the Machavellian and the sociopath find grace in one another.
The weakness of a narcissist would be his or her tendency to feel important because of his or her relationship with God that would keep her ignorant of the wisdom that she would need that would allow her to be more herself. A codependency with God is the danger of narcissism.
That codependency would allow a narcissist to both feel loved and be incapable of love, because the codependency is a symptom of a lack of wisdom that would allow the ability to love. And that's why a narcissist always finds themselves feeling left out of the sociopath and machavellian closeness that he or she actually craves but can't have.
A narcissist tends to view his or her closeness with God and his or her perceived importance as a sign that the closeness of a sociopathic/machavellian union to be wrong in God's eyes, but that's a logical fallacy. The narcissist confused their own feeling of lack as a reliable guide to what God actually feels about a situation. That's a symptom of the narcissistic codependency, which is the inability to tell the difference between their own personal feelings and God's actual intentions. That makes all wisdom completely inaccessible to a narcissist unless that narcissist learns to listen, but the price of listening is to give up the sense of importance that comes from his or her perceived connection to God.
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