I asked Dr. Neasman at Jackson State University to describe what he felt was the logical fallacy of people pleasing is. For those who don't know he was the Shakespeare professor at Jackson State University and he has been an immense saving grace for me and gave me room to challenge his ideas and let me be myself and is the primary reason my experience at Jackson State University provided me with a top notch education, no matter how that University is officially accredited with, proving that teachers are more influential than reviewers who dont know anything about teaching.
Dr. Neasman: The logical fallacy of people pleasing is the nature of people needing shade from your sense of pleasing and the tendency to validate their sense of control that aligned with your unwillingness to learn would create the perfect self chosen illusion.
The problem is the instinct to try to be smaller than you are to try to make someone be a parent to take care of you.
Thats why people reject people pleasers. Its an imposition that disrespects the autonomy of other people.
There's grey area here so think for yourself.
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