Sex doesn't just objectify women. Women tend to be the most objectified sexual beings because their bodies provide the greatest degree of pleasure and their bodies advertise it when their bodies are at their full potential. Not suggesting that everything is sexual because it isnt. Even structures that are founded on sex like family isnt necessarily sexual. Some things created by sex just become structure and isnt necessarily sexual in and of itself. I don't want to explain the obvious by making this point seem less obvious. Anyone with any kind of intuition will know im right on this point. I can't fix someone else's broken clock so to speak if you cant get this.
Morality is about respecting ones own life. As soon as one were to reduce ones life into a split mind of should and should nots youd notice your train of thought would always tend towards something meaningless and evil unless one is just enjoying the pleasure of the moment.
Many women who had been on the sex train forgot this. The sex train is just a woman who didn't have a strong family Foundation and had to use meaningless energy to get from point a to point b. Thats no ones fault and no one actually did that to anyone. That was just the gap where the meaninglessness of existence became abundantly clear and women had to use their sexual power to fight to survive.
But thats not what sex is in and of itself. That was God keeping the beautiful relaxing and calming reality of sex from causing human beings to damn themselves out of complacency. If it wasn't sex it was going to be something else.
Love is the same way. People know that love is my nature and associated the brutality of the train with love and that was a logical fallacy too. Love is beautiful and restful and even when on a train its meaningful. And so its the only restful energy thats equal to God. God is grace and light. His name isnt actually love because love lived low in the realm of hell due to its restful energy that implies integrity first.
God is benevolence and light and he loves human beings, but his spirit name isnt love. Thats a different corner. Gods spirit name is infinite logical benevolence that supports life.
A subtle but important distinction.
Clever is love. Logic is support. One cant exist without the other.
But back to the subject of sex.
Women in their highest form are fully developed sexual beings that provide pleasure and rest. That's the God aspect of a woman. Sex as logical support for rest.
The integrity aspect of a woman is what she does for herself. I can't be loving unless my clever nature is on equal terms with women or clever either. My clever is aligned with the impersonal nature of the mechanical universe that finds equal common ground with God and everyone else.
The natural space between my humanity and responsibility means that even if a woman gives me herself in the form of her restful sex she only gets access to the impersonal nature of the universe guided by my cleverness so as to preserve my humanity.
Meaning that a grown woman having sex with me is like a woman giving herself to herself.
That allows her to enjoy sex without fear and for some female ethical seducers can have sex with men and break their hearts because its better for a man to be clever than damned.
(Just don't go seducing male virgins or others who actually dont know any better. Some karmic ties are better left untied.)
And what is sex at its best?
It's a sense of rest and bonding that provides easy lessons transmitted just by virtue of the sexual experience. It also provides pathways through ignorance and darkness as the intimacy between men and women allows the thrill of secret closeness that makes life fun and ethically mysterious.
The sex act itself though allows these things, but it isnt these things.
Sex is objective pleasure for the sake of pleasure. Nothing more. A baby would be a potential consequence of sex but procreation isnt sex.
Sex is sex. Pleasure for the sake of pleasure because pleasure feels good in and of itself.
Making sex anything more than that would make it evil and unjustly violate the free will of others. That's why making sex about control isnt sex. That's rape.
Sex is consensual pleasure between two consenting adults only for the sake of mutual pleasure. Nothing more.
That other stuff is just the junk that sex is apart of, but the correlating factors that surrounded sex isn't sex. Those were just the structures.
It would be better if people stopped blaming sex for those things and created structures that made sex a support system and not a destructive force.
That was fear and ignorance that did that to sexuality, not sex.
The good news is that if people can recognize they did that to themselves, then they can unfuck themselves or whatever. Lol
As a man i like big tits and the types of perfectly proportioned thighs that make sex pleasurable and comforting.
But also women please notice that the train tricked you into thinking that men are physical creatures. That was the train trick.
As a man what makes physical appearance less of a factor is mental chemistry of a fun mutual experience in life outside the bedroom.
Laughter and going places and doing things and secret intimacy of knowing perfect harmony of our mutual selves bring that isnt codependence.
Thats where sex and love meet. Where getting to know a woman and my relationship to that woman is fun. Because if I'm in love with a woman i already know that my spirit is in perfect harmony with hers. Or the spirit of each other wouldnt have filled the cracks between.
Discovering what that harmony is is the fun part of love. The in love feeling is proof of harmony. Discovering what that is is the responsible aspect of love so that one doesn't lose sight of what that feeling is for the sake of the feeling itself and map out that love.
Love is proof how the universe takes care of itself and proof that there is nothing that one should think and there isnt anything one should do.
The groove of love is that equality of all but is only truly manifested between men and women. That means that segregating the genders is evil.
Formlessness is what evil is. But love isnt formless. The feeling reveals the objective form of all things like water running through a map that already existed. Love is the baby proofing so that you don't die in the contraction of things.
Living without love would be like jumping out of a plane without a parachute because if you had a parachute it would mean that you jumped out of a plane, so you thought jumping out of a plane unprepared was safer.
Life would be never ending stupidity without love because love has an endgame of rest. Any other path without love could only end in eternal torment.
And for those who want to know my personal stance on interracial sexual relationships for me they were a necessary evil and often a symptom of bitterness and anti-sexuality and anti-love.
Its not always exclusively that. In the landscape of self hatred and bitterness love and genuine sex still exists but thats because humans are humans everywhere, but the dangerous aspect of that is the tendency of interracial relationships whether heterosexual or homosexual tends to represent a failure when someone closed their eyes and gave up on themselves their family and everything with the temporary feelings and comraderie that let them pretend that that wasnt what was happening.
The train wisdom isn't always as simple as that. But the train isnt a home. And cant be.
That's what happened to a lot of people who were afraid of being saved and didn't want to be rescued. It's a tragic and contemptuous mindset.
Its where contempt and not deserving contempt both exist in the same place that proved that life isnt fair and that no one should accept slavery or wait to be rescued.
Its a lesson why no one can save a slave from thinking and acting like a slave. Sad but true.
That's how people damned themselves. They thought the train was their home and feared love instead like a prisoner who thought living in a cage meant they were safe.
For further reading for the sake of an emotional reaction that allows for epiphanies without any new lessons i suggest watching the story of "wreak" who bit his sisters hand and jumped back into his cage for what train psychology actually is.
It's why im not in an interracial romantic partnership and why i don't judge anyone who is. There's a difference between whats objectively good and what's the best possible good for unfair situations.
Only the fact that i have the wisdom to know how to love gave me that wisdom.
And as a man the way i gave myself to a woman was when i asked her to teach me how to love her and myself.
The giving ones self away thing isn't just a woman thing. Women have their sex to offer and men have their love to offer. The objective space between them is what that love is.
Men hurt themselves when their just foolish love sluts like a loose woman would be with her sex.
Common patterns allow for empathy and compassion so that pride and bitterness doesnt get in the way.
Sometimes though being a slut is how to survive. Im a love slut. And I do that consciously so as to have the biggest map possible.
A woman can refuse to have babies for the sake of using sex to create love maps with men.
Its better to know where you're going and what you're doing then to have babies.
A man gives himself away first accidently through astral invitation by inviting a woman to allow him to fall in love with her intellect.
Then a woman can invite a man to fall in love with her sex and then love is made through intimacy that creates a perfect map of perfect trust that makes the objective world perfectly clear. The world might still be tough and unfair but the map allows for hope self respect and pride and frees a person from needing to blame anyone ever again. When love is done right the man and the woman are equals to the same map.
That's why what looks "unfair" or "abusive" to outsiders often isnt. Slavery and love can look almost identical. The only difference is in the results.
God gives people a choice to choose slavery and torment or love and salvation and sadly some people had chosen slavery and torment.
Its like that scary movie commercial when people were running from a scary guy and one woman said "why don't we just get in the running car," and the guy was like "are you crazy, lets hide behind the chain saws."
That's the level of intelligence that people used when they avoided love.
In this is actually the key to protecting ones child and not sexualize ones child either.
Friendship love and intimacy can exist without sexuality between an adult and his or her child as long as there's an umbrella of sexuality between that adult and the outside world so that the child can have the map of their parent and not be traumatized by their parent.
Sexuality creating a meta structure that isnt necessarily sexual in all its parts.
The intimacy map between parent and child without sex. Where the world may not be fair but family can be as fair as it can be.
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