Grace and rest

 As i told my mom and a libra friend social skills will demonstrate easy reconciliation when the time is right. 

But all those circumstances and amends and mountains to climb thats on you. 

A tough truth i dont like saying except there is definitely a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. 

My uncle Greg simplified ethics for me. 

I am the only ethical thing im directly in control of. If im good to myself and prevent harm to myself then everything good will eventually fall into place.

Where that gets hard is you have to let go of all codependent interference with others. Its easy to say you're not your husband society or whatever, but until you can say I'm not my daughter or im not my son you'll never be as good as you need to be to be good for your daughter or son. 

For a mother that would almost be impossible which is why men have taken the lead in history because its easier for men to lack that sense of false identity. 

(A man's weakness with women is when a woman is in touch with that nihilistic side that needs love. A man's wisdom in connecting with other people in non codependent ways shows the worth of a man. Because everything is connected already in as good as it presently can be. Things are only made better by ethical separation so that true connection is transparent and clear. If you resist that call to ethically separate then you will make things worse.)

But here's where light is less powerful than darkness. God's wisdom is the grace of a toilet bowl. Rest is your responsibility. What a demon is is rest without grace. What God is is grace without rest unless the part of you thats an inevitable demon negotiates with God for grace and rest. For me I demonstrated with God that friendship and romantic love and family love naturally balance each other so that i can always rest.